I am Jamie Ray. As you can tell from the title of this blog, I have an issue with pronouns, and I have a really cute dog, Gracie. I live on the border of trans* and butch. I live with my dog and my partner.
Gracie doesn’t care about my identity issues; Donna wants me to stay on the butch side of the border. I guess we will all see how that plays out.
I’ve been this way since I can remember, so this isn’t about transitioning from one place to another. As Popeye would say “I am what I am”. I am shy about my boy-ness/masculinity, even though it is blatantly obvious to the world, and I am completely unable to hide it. I am most myself when I am with a dog. When I go out with Gracie, I am a boy with her dog.
Feel free to contact me at email@example.com